Use a ten-frame to make a ten from one addend, then add the leftover, to add within 20.
A ten-frame is a box with two rows of five. It helps you SEE ten. When one number is close to ten, you can borrow from the other number to fill the frame all the way, then add what is left.
For 8 + 5, fill the ten-frame with the 8 (2 empty boxes left). Take 2 from the 5 to fill those boxes -- now you have a full ten, plus 3 left over. 10 + 3 = 13.
Mastery looks like: They fill a ten-frame, split the second number, and add the leftover to ten confidently.
Common stumbles: Splitting the wrong number; forgetting to add the leftover after making the ten.
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