Identify rules at home and explain the reason behind each one, understanding that families can make rules together.
Every home has rules, even if no one ever wrote them down. "Wash your hands before dinner." "Shoes off at the door." A good rule always has a reason.
Families can talk about rules together. A grownup usually decides the rule, but a kid can help by explaining how a rule feels, or suggesting a new one that would help everyone.
Mastery looks like: They can name a household rule and state the real reason behind it, not just "because I said so."
Common stumbles: Confusing a rule with a punishment, or naming a rule without being able to explain its reason.